When we got married 25 years ago, we both agreed on a couple of things. We wanted a family and best friend only wedding. We wanted a home wedding, and we wanted it to be simple, but complete.
How does one go about that? We got married in the back yard of Laurie's parents house. There was a huge, looming pine tree that majestically towered over the family's back yard. That was the spot.
Laurie and her mother cooked all the food in advance, because they wanted home-cooked food. Bill's family was a large family, so a lot of cooking went on for days and days.
It was a touching experience for Laurie and her mom as they talked, laughed, reminisced about "the good old days" not realizing that one day Laurie and her husband-to-be would one day write about those very days, and call them "the good old days" for our blog "I Can't Drive 55!"
Note: You may be wondering why this blog is called "I Can't Drive 55" but that's a future post.
The day arrived as a hot, humid, windy day in a small community in upstate New York. Bill's family arrived from across the state to spend the day with their new daughter-in-law and their son. Laurie was the first of her family to marry, so her brothers arrived with their friends too. You know, home-cooked food is a huge attraction to country folk!
The wedding party was assembled, and they proceeded with the ceremony before all their friends and family.
Waiting for the Bride |
Maid of Honor |
Bride and Her Dad |
Laughing at the Bride? |
Laughing Through the Ceremony |
More Laughing! |
But then again, we did have some solemn moments too!
Solemn Moment |
The Rings |
Then finally! The kiss! Oooh, laaa, laa! Sweet! But look at Paul, we know he was saying something! What? Neither of us know, but we just know he was saying something.
The Kiss! |
Congratulations all around now!
Congratulations! |
Pictures with the families!
Picture with the Families |
Then finally, the food, the relaxation, and just getting used to "He's my husband" and "She's my wife." Notice how we aren't even looking at each other?? What's up with that?
Relaxing |
Oh, yeah, we almost forgot...the cutting of the cake!
The Cake |
Aunt Shirley and Uncle Gordon
ReplyDeleteJune 13, 2010 at 1:36 pm
That was beautiful. Glad we were finally able to attend your wedding. :-) You are just 30 years behind us, our 55th being July 5th.
icantdrive55
ReplyDeleteJune 13, 2010 at 9:15 pm
We’re glad you were able to attend too! Stay tuned, Aunt Shirley and Uncle Gordan, as we will be posting one on visiting you all down south.
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fiveboysmom
ReplyDeleteJune 14, 2010 at 2:37 am
What a great time! I can’t wait for the next 25 years of the story!
GrammyGoo
ReplyDeleteJune 14, 2010 at 9:49 am
Aww. How precious.
Melissa Hayes
ReplyDeleteJune 26, 2010 at 2:01 am
my mom said she took pictures at your wedding :)
icantdrive55
ReplyDeleteJune 26, 2010 at 2:31 am
Misha (boy, I haven’t called you that in a long time), your dear mother *did* take the pictures at our wedding! Love ya!